Now that jazz posted that I see his point. It sounds a tad like a closure letter. Toss his own question back on him. Why is it so hard for him to choose life with or without you. What's his heart (or gut) telling him?
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."