Also, it will take ages for your wife to do the D paperwork herself. Also it may take a while to sell the house.
I posted earlier about my sitch, but it has calmed down a lot. W is more interested in my comings and goings recently since going "lovingly" dark.
I am off to the big game tonight, then have a party to go to on Sat night (will be full of glamours........) So it is nice to be able to do the things my W wouldn't let me do when we were M.
She has called me controlling and jealous, but if you saw her during our marriage, if a female even looked at me when we were our, she wanted to knock her block off.
Also, enjoy your freedom while it lasts. If your W does come back, it will change and that freedom will be gone (not to say I don't prefer M to being single, but whilst I am single I will enjoy myself).
Anyway, my advice to you is just don't snoop, don't initiate any talk about what she is doing or who she is with, don't disclose anything that you do (some of it will get back to her anyway), treat her friends well (keep them thinking what the hell is she leaving this dreamboat for) and look after yourself and your family and friends.
Most import one is to look after yourself.
Well its 7am and I am off for a 4 hour drive to Canberra.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
