I have sett up the financial boundaries plus others. I do not try to fix her problems like before. I live my life. I go to work then workout (x-bodybuilder) hard then come home.
I spend time with her but do not smother her with relationship jabber. I am all talked out. We get along much better but I still am uncomfortable with the Intimacy issue. She is not participating 100% and I do not know how to explain this to her. As GEL stated, maybe I should back off 100% sexually from her and wait to see what happens.