Well I think that might answer one question, if pastor is pro-marraige"which he should be" and your W knows this, can she really say anything different to him. That would be like telling you a possiblity exists, and having you jump all over it. Your pastor would do the same, so she has to shut down and not tell him.
BINGO!!! Get that man a stuffed animal prize of his choosing!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...