"but she can treat me like a human" Keep dreaming ERC, they just get worse. You are right though, it's not about you, it's about her, and remember, with WAW's it's always about them. They become very self centred and often just put their heads down and try to bull their way through. Try not to take it too personally, I know for me that was probably the hardest thing to learn (and I don't think I ever really did learn it!). You gotta take care of yourself now, she isn't there for you even in the most basic ways, like common coutesy. Don't expect it.
