"When the HD spouse no longer cares and feelings of rejection no longer exist, the LD spouse discovers desire.
What I'm trying to say is that to the extent that the HD spouse does feel rejection, the HD spouse will unconsciously project a desire to maintain the relationship and the LD spouse will feel secure in the relationship and therefore "desire" nothing further to promote that feeling of security."
MJ found that to be that case, but I don't. I don't feel particularly rejected, nor do I project desire lately. Makes not one bit of difference to my W.
