Thanks for painting the picture for me 3-4 years down the line. This schedule only works for a few years until my youngest goes to school fulltime. I am going to push for the court documents to say 50/50 and agree with my W on our girls schedule until they both start going to school fulltime. At that point one week on and one week off would work out.

As for getting Fridays off I currently work M-F. I have been talking to my boss and have been very open with him about what is going on. He knows that I might need to work strange/atypical hours and seems willing to work with me. For this I am grateful. I have the ability to work from home. If I am really needed I could make arrangements to have my DD's watched while I worked from home.

As for the 60 days I was surprised that I had so long to responded. But that is what the document that I signed this morning said. I will confirm this with my L tomorrow.

I also realize that I am being her babysitter, but they are my girls. I would rather them be with me instead of someone else. Is she caking eating with this schedule? absolutely. Is it fair? I think so.

-ERC


Me - 30
2 girls- 3,6Current