Thanks JDK - much appreciated. Yeah, I do have that marriage fitness book and should get that back out. It had a good plan, but now I wonder if all of it's just going to feel like pressure or trying to fix him or trap him somewhere he doesn't want to be.

I'm not making any big decisions right now, for sure. Working on the not getting down part although struggling with it today.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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