I do plan on doing my best, the hard part is being around her entire family. I won't talk about the R, but can I at least think about it from time to time?
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Just don't think about it, there's no reason to, and people will see that you're preoccupied. Just be present, be in the MOMENT, be THERE. You'll put off a positive vibe, people will notice your attitude and enjoy being with you. That'll speak volumes to your W.
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
I will try, but I know myself. I actually cannot wait to go swimming, I have not been this wieght since at least high school. Maybe my SIL will want me, she looks like my W.
Could scare everyone and buy speedos
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M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I will try, but I know myself. I actually cannot wait to go swimming, I have not been this wieght since at least high school. Maybe my SIL will want me, she looks like my W.
Have you lost your mind???
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Could scare everyone and buy speedos
yikes...
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
Okay, I have another advice question or whatever you want to call it.
My W, because of her job, wants to go in early every chance she gets, problem arise, or good thing if you want to look at it that way is....on the nights she is suppose to have S and wants to work early, she wants me to spend the night "on sofa" so I do not have to wake up 2 hours early and neither does or S. It is a 15 minute drive, not bad, but sofa sucks and it is for her conveince not mine or S. Is this a way to use me, or a way to keep me around? The other thing is, if I do this, I will be spending 3-4 nites a week at her place, why the frick have 2 apartments..... ok done venting.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I have decided the sofa at her place sucks, if I do this again I think I should sneak into bed after she is asleep. Better check to make sure she does not own a baseball bat.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
That is true, but being over the hill, my body hates this morning. Oh and not snooping while I am here, but sitting up on the side of this computer is cards she bought for Fathers day. One for her dad, one from S to papa, one from S to me, and one from her to me. The one from her to me is not a card you get someone who you are seperated from or even thinking of D, at least not in my eyes. I am reading it and memorizing it.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
