Hey Nikki, I don't have any useful advice, but just wanted to give you some (((NikkiB))) and support. It is good that he opened up and told you honestly some of how he felt. I hope the two of you can find some constructive behaviors to deal with how you're both feeling and not destructive ones.
I know you've mentioned the Marriage Fitness stuff and it sounded like you were less than impressed with it. I do know the book (verses the course) had a well laid out plan of how to do things to rebuild love and reconnect with your spouse, have you tried that stuff much (talk/touch charges, the intimate interviews, etc.)
Take care, try not to get down or make huge decisions based on what you're thinking/feeling right now. -JDK
