I see what you learned from this freind, but my question is if they see our neediness or cliginess as repulsive, how come it is OK for their GF/BF to be needy? I am still waiting for my H to get bored or tired of his OW clinginess!! A times I see where she is holding on to dear life when he wants toa tten our family functions (she cut short her out of town trip b/c of our daughter's recital)...i could be assuming ,but...
I am proud to say since 9/06 I had not broke down on H until last weekend. I think like everyone else he is a little stand offish now, but in away I felt it was needed b/c he said he will have alot to think about on his upcoming bus. trip tomorrow.
