I haven't responded because this thread sounded more to me like you were simply venting. Don't take someone not responding to your thread personally, sometimes people become bogged down responding to two or three threads at a time....sometimes you have to bump your own up if this happens and say "YO! I NEED FEEDBACK!!!"
I'm sorry if I've missed this but have you read Divorce Busting? Have you employed the 180 techniques?
