Married 20 years this 4th of July, I'm 47 W 44. 4 kids D 15, D 13, S 9, S 4...bombshell dropped this Mothers Day of all days with the "I don't love you anymore, my mind won't change and don't want to do counseling". W hasn't really told me reasons behind her feelings. Did the beg, cry, grovel piece before thankfully reading Michele's two books. I'm a reading fool now and trying to be my mature 47! Separation has hit the one month point w/ lots of self reflection. Question for anyone - does it take longer for wife to notice changes being physically separated vice living in same house but "separated"?


Me 47
W 45
D 16 & 13
S 9 & 5
Married 20 years
Sep 13 May '07
DB Start 1 Jun '07

"You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go bear fruit - fruit that will last" John 15:16