OT - thanks. Do you think it's a bad idea to even pursue the MC? Since he mentioned he was open to it, I thought it might be a good idea - not to push him one way or the other, but just to help guide us?

I can deal with the limbo for now, although I'm pretty sad that I'm back there again.

The harder part to deal with is loving him so much and feeling like the "default" rather than someone he loves.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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