Yeah, I know about the "getting back to normal" when he gets back issue. That was actually one of the things I said to him when he still wanted the D though -- that we were going to have to pretty much "get to know each other" again once he got back anyway. I think we'll have some adjustment issues, but hopefully we'll just all be happy he's home and run w/ it.

Ok, I will stay the course. I just really have some emotional days where I just wish he could "give" me a little more.

I will just keep doing what I'm doing and go see him in September and see how things go. I guess I should just be happy with where we are at and that we aren't separated/going through divorce as we could be. I'll quit acting like a "needy chick."


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10