Mending fences day yesterday. W emailed me that she wanted me to talk to DD about their relationship (DD not on speaking terms with W) So I did that. I had a good chat with DD, based a little on forgiveness, but also on the fact that for each of them the mother daughter relationship was something that was important for this time forward. I also said that ultimately it was up to each of them to foster that relationship.
W went to counseling. I think she was very happy that I talked to DD about their R. I also talked a little about some of my other feelings, why I was distant over the weekend etc. A good chat.
I talked a little about my GAL plan, in that I felt what happened devalued me, so my new fitness regimen was to aide me in beginning to feel good about myself. I believe she felt it was an effort to look good for other women.
Good communication progress, still feel 70/30, but taking whatever time we need.
