shemagic Generally build up her desire levels. BTDT
Try to show her that anything is okay in the bedroom BTDT
and you get so much pleasure yourself from making her come. I tried but it doesn't happen. i can't make BB cum or want to cum/"O". BB's words are "she doesn't have the desire, can't make the connection to her desire You really want her to feel pleasure too. Absolutely but it isn’t happening, the cum/pleasure part
I enjoy the physical closeness either way. I love sometimes just giving pleasure to my H makes me feel good so... I have felt BB feels the same sometimes. Knowing this helps me to keep trying.
I like what you said over all shemagic.
Balto's situation might be very different. I am just sharing how it happens in the Lou household.