Wow...you have handled this thing BEAUTIFULLY. Hit it right between the eyeballs...and this is the true time when you will know if it will work or not. You had the guts and tenacity to hit it head on...cause it never does when one or the other backs down. Keep it up and I can assure you...deep down, every woman wants a strong man who values his own existence, emotional state, sexualty, and a man who knows what he wants is just a pure turn on...