Well, here is the update! Thanks for your encouragement!



Jazz - I acted superior! I walked in and right past other mom and sat on the wall by the dugout. I sat w/H little brother and the team would sit by us when at bat. She sat behind us s/stalker BF. WTF?????? She must be looney!

H talked to me throughout the game off and on. He said 0 to her the whole time I was there. Boys sat w/me and talked about the game. One son said "Mom, did you see her BF is there w/her?" I said, "Yep. Don't really understand that sitch, but it's not our problem." He smiled and was fine

After the game, she packed her stuff up and left. I hung around and talked to boys because they were going w/their dad. D7 and I left and went to eat w/my mom and sister. About 20 minutes later, H and boys walked in........alone! We pulled tables together and had a nice time.

H spent most of the time filling my sister and mom in on the mess his family (mom, sister, brother) have made of their lives. That's a whole separate thread!!!! He talked and was very pleasant.

So, I guess I feel much better. I think the message was clear and she must have gotten it too. I saw her look at me a few times and she had a scowl on her face. I sat and laughed and talked the entire time.

Thanks for your help! It gave me perspective!

Hope everyone has a great day!

bambam


Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs