Last night while trying to go to sleep my W came downstairs to the family room(this is where I sleep now) and wanted to talk about something I said earlier. I mentioned to her on the way out of counseling that I was seeing my L on Wednesday and that I had some questions on custody. I left it at that and we started to talk about my W work schedule for the week, our kids, etc... I guess this comment really bothered her and she needed to know what my intentions where.
I told her(not really a big deal). She then told me what she was expecting when it comes to our kids and custody. Schedule is something like this: - Every other weekend - Thursday night and all day Friday (every week) - Tuesdays have the girls for dinner. - Holidays and vacation where not discussed but we mentioned that we would need to work that out between the two of us.
She also told me that she does not want to touch my 401k. She basically sounds like she wants me to buy her out of the house and pay her some child support. If this is truely her intentions there is not much for me to fight for. This seems more then fair. I still would like to prolong the D process a bit to give C a chance to give my W a change of heart. A change of heart may never occur. Maybe letting her go quickly and quietly might be what is best. It still bothers me that she has made this decision while still talking to OM. All the points that she is making IMO are cloudy because of this EA. I cannot tell her this but I would like for her to realize this on her own. Unfortunately I did not get a chance to mention in C that I feel the A is still going on. There is always next week and hopefully the week after that.....
