Lawless,

Haven't been too involved with your sitch these past months I've been here. A few things I've noticed:

#1. I have twins boys age 11 and they are a blessing and twice the work!

#2 I have a Jeep, too and I absolutely love it! H bought it for me a few months before bomb. I drive it proudly!

I also believe that you are legally separated and that makes the sitch a bit different.

"Affair: a usually secretive or illicit sexual relationship" dictionary definition

Uhhh...not your situation.

So, go slow but allow yourself to be happy. You deserve that!

Good luck!

bambam

Me-BS 38
X-WS 36
Separated 11/15/2006
Filed for D 8/1/2007
Divorce Final 12/21/2007
S13, S13 (twins), D9
Married 13 Yrs
Together 20 Yrs