Braveheart,I will move out as and when I am ready, I need a suitable place for me and most of all son, I won't downgrade and I won't be bullied, my son as put up with enough from this moron and xh is the one that is losing out on his son, I will not allow my son to be put through any more hell from this man, he can have the house when I'm gone, let him sell it and not give us a coin, let him spend it all on him and wifey, and what is he going to do when it runs out, will she still want him. who cares