yes there was a document to say what he had to pay and never has but I just accepted it in exchange for the rent. he gave me a tenancy agreement and I never signed it so where his solicitor is saying I did is beyond me they must be as cracked up as xh.
Let me at him. Now I am pissed too. I have a 12 year old son too.
That changes what I think. First, f***ing with a 12 year old boy. Second not honoring his agreement and expecting you to do so. Tower of London for that &%^%$*().
I assume you have a solicitor too and have kept him informed.
yes imp I have a solicitor and she doesn't believe what he comes up with, the two documents that were sent today contradict themselves, one says he had agreed for me not to pay rent, and the other tells me how much I owe him,
imp, yes this is the first time he as asked for payment, as we semi agreed through the solicitor this time last year that I would take in exchange for him not paying any child support for rent. He is using this as an excuse to get us out, ha maybe she didnt know I wasn't paying him rent, that would be good. Funny thing was when he popped the letter through the door last week he had the bare faced cheek to stoop down when driving off to see if he could see something in the window, was it me I should have bared my arse at him.
Mandy, it just looks to me like he is using this as pressure to get you to move out. What he has failed to realize is that you have a lot of leverage against him legally, because of the obligations that he has with your son. I would suggest you start exercising those now!
Braveheart,I will move out as and when I am ready, I need a suitable place for me and most of all son, I won't downgrade and I won't be bullied, my son as put up with enough from this moron and xh is the one that is losing out on his son, I will not allow my son to be put through any more hell from this man, he can have the house when I'm gone, let him sell it and not give us a coin, let him spend it all on him and wifey, and what is he going to do when it runs out, will she still want him. who cares
Quick update, heard or seen nothing of xh, can't say I want to at this time. This is about the luck I have in life, last weekend me and my girl friends all went to spain for the weekend, there are fella's out there gagging for it and I had to wonder to myself how many of them are actually married or in relationship's back home, but the luck of it was the one I pulled actually admitted he was in a midlife crisis, one of my freinds knew him from a long time ago and she commented on how he had changed, how he had got all the piercing's and he actually said "yes I know I am in a mid-life crisis, and the awful thing is I just can't get myself out of it" to that I said well thanks but I think I can do without you in my life at the present time, so I didn't hang around to hear anymore, but found it strange that although to us this man appeared normal and sociable he actually knew he was going through this.
