You are doing fine buddy. Just keep detaching, don't worry about what you W may or may not be doing, put OM out of your thoughts and look after yourself.
It does get easier, and you will notice the changes in your R the more you back off and GAL. Once your W has her freedom, and no pressure from you, she will be able to think a lot clearer about what she is doing, and may even have time to regret.
I have noticed changes in my W, but I am not going to read too much into any baby steps. I will continue to detach and do my own thing with DD and my family and friends, and she is on her own in regards to me always being there.
One more sleep to go before the game tomorrow, I am soooooooo excited.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
