OM/PA, MLC and the hits keep coming............

[WAW in the OC]

Andyv,

I kind of do know what she is doing. She does seem to be having fun but I have detached. Thanks to you I now really don't care what she does. By Jan 1st I will probably be a free man or deciding if I want to take my wife back while she grovels.

I do absolutely love being with my kids though. I am seeing minor signs like the wife able to stay in the room I'm in. She's even eating some of the food I make! Today she didn't even open the e-mails OM sent her yesterday. She might be coming to her senses but that is hoping for a lot.

I spoke w/ BIL(her bro) and he agrees she is not in a good place. He knows she is wrong doing what she's doing and that I'm a good husband/father. He even admitted she treated me quite badly lately. I guess this is a sign that things happen for a reason.
GAL has helped a lot though. I don't care what she does anymore as long as she's a good mom and takes care of the kids when she has them.

History may still count for something. And I promised myself that I would learn from it, and not repeat my same mistakes. I won't ever take her for granted if she does come back to me.