I know this isn't a place you want to really be a part of but there is plenty of help and some great advice. My wife told me recently that she wants our divorce finalized by Jan 1st, 2008. At first I thought this was a bad thing.
Then I realized I won't have to live in this hell for much longer. Either she'll come back to me or I'll be celebrating my Independence day on December 31st! It was actually a relief to know that either way, I'll be happier than I am now.
Keep a PMA and keep using GAL. It helped me get through the toughest time in my life and everyone I meet that saw me a month ago noticed that I am in much better spirits. I feel better and I'm in the best shape of my life. Best of luck. We are all rooting for marriage to work through this.
ME: 39 ring on wife:38 ring off WAW/MLC son:17,11 dtr:9 mar:17yr Bomb4-27-07. EA/PA 2/07 with 22yr old. DBing 5-19-07 My story on the link below. http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1069470&page=0#Post1069470
