You sound like you are in a good place. Yes, I'm sure it still hurts but once we realize that we have done everything we could, the best thing to do is LET GO.
That conversation seems to have gone really well and I'm sure she will be fair when it comes to the kids as well.
To end the conversation with a hug and a kiss and you feeling good about yourself is a sign of strength and character.
You will meet a wonderful lady and what a lucky lady she will be.
Hugs, ISLH
Me: 49 - S22 & S26 H: 41 - No kids M: 10/00 Bomb New Year's Day 2006 H living w OW 01/07; have baby 12/07 D final 07/07 Thread #9 - Hope Lives On
