So we all have the same situation.....Can that be real? Yesterday I finally stood my ground and said no more. He has made his choice and I have to make mine. He told me that we had been done for a long time. He really cares for OW so I just said fine its your choice. This morning he called and said that he admired me for taking a stand and making a decision. He said he wasn't man enough.....He just didn't want to be the bad guy. He said he still loved me but couldn't live with me...In a way today has seemed alot more relaxed. I have a little anxiety once in awhile but he probably called and tried to call at least 10 times to day to check on me and tell me that he will not abandon me...(Isn't that what he is doing by his choice to leave?) ONe good point is the OW cleaned his 5th wheel while he was at the other job. She threw out all my stuff. So I told him yesterday that she had done. He kept saying she wouldn't do that and I said all vindictive woman like her would. This moning I get the call that he was apologizing because not only had she thrown my stuff but some of his...His quote "maybe All the glitter might not be gold" I was furious about her doing that. I think that showed a different light to him.
I decided I am standing my ground. He has treated me not nice at times and wanted out so I told him becareful what you wish for. I think today he kinda thought about that.
Yoyo That is really touching what your dad did for you. I also appreciate being able to talk to you guys like yoyo after 25 years ofmarriage and alot of relatives and friends can't believe I stayed. He even said he can't believe I stayed.
Hang in there all of you .HUGS for everyone for being strong...
