SD I think I can understand how you feel - that line "Instead of TALKING to me, he makes assumptions about what I think/how I feel and then gets pissed off at me for a decision I never had a part in." is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much like my H.
Sh!t, doesn't that make you CRAZY? I try to redirect him, but it's hard unless it comes up during MC because I don't know otherwise. This freaks me out because it's a big part of what happened to cause the bomb in the first place. How do you fight against the unseen???
H is out of town for the week, and I have mixed feelings about it. On the one hand, I'm totally stressed out at work (it's our last week of school), so I'm welcoming the quiet. On the other hand, it's too much like when he left for his vaca last year when he decided he wanted to S. But that's me. I'll float over to your sitch to see what's happening w/you...
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
