Remember that as we detach, we do not allow their actions to affect how we feel. It is really hard for him to look at you because deep down he is feeling a lot of guilt and if he would even show a inkling of consideration, he may just start to get some feelings back for you but he will continue to fight them.
You sound wonderful and that is what is important - not him.
Saw the pics - looks like you and the kids had a great time.
Hugs to you, ISLH
Me: 49 - S22 & S26 H: 41 - No kids M: 10/00 Bomb New Year's Day 2006 H living w OW 01/07; have baby 12/07 D final 07/07 Thread #9 - Hope Lives On
