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Originally Posted By: Jeanette1120
Billy.......

3 things

1 I thot I was #1.......fine, I'll take #2 but then you really must let her know she's actually #3........K?? \:\)

2. Can she weld? Does she like garage mechanics? Capn's?

3. You are a GROWN man.

Now.....with that said.....and I'm still stinging from being placed in the #2 category....I'll say this. You are legally seperated. Your wife is openly having a relationship with another man......granted, she's missing some tools from the tool box, however.....as long as you BOTH know what is going on, and YOU BOTH communicate with each other....no harm, no foul. That is just my opinion. My husband is gone....he's trying to procreate with another woman....so what am I to do? Why, I'll just curl up into a ball and wait to see if he drags his sorry asz home......NOT! I'll live. I'll love. I'll be happy too!

Just take your time Billy.......I'm happy for you. Your a wonderful man and father. You deserve some happiness or the capn' was gonna take you under and that would have been awful.

Uhm, is it the person from down the street You can just email me the answer.....but me thinkesttttttt it is.

Give my niece and nephew a hug from their Aunty Sparkles.

MUAH BILLY!



Hiya Sparkles,

can she weld? Not yet but she can strike an ark.

Does she like garage mechanics? Ummmmm well she was hanging around the shop today so I guess the answer is yes.

Does she like Capn's? No she doesn't oddly enough, she does like tequila and that works for me ;\)

No it's not the one from down the street LOL, I met her at my little GAL pub. It turned out we had a very good friend of mine (deceased)in common. It's funny but she told me she's been trying to get my attention for a few years, said she figured I was a snob I told her I wasn't looking at others until recently.

Best thing of all is we are communicating very well \:\)


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aren't we supposed to approve her? Where's her pic?


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Bwahahahaha,

I was gonna add a PS to my post asking if I should provide a pic.

Hmmmmmmm maybe someone will see her because if I go to renfest she will be coming with ;\)


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\:o

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lawless,

I'm in no postion to say too much here, mostly because I'm too new to all of this and y'all are quite the veterens. With your help, and that of many of the other great people on her, I'm learning the value of standing. At a point though, I can see that in order to really GAL, the standing has to end. I'm sorry you ended up at that point, but I wish you the best of luck, my friend.

God bless.
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Lawless,

Haven't been too involved with your sitch these past months I've been here. A few things I've noticed:

#1. I have twins boys age 11 and they are a blessing and twice the work!

#2 I have a Jeep, too and I absolutely love it! H bought it for me a few months before bomb. I drive it proudly!

I also believe that you are legally separated and that makes the sitch a bit different.

"Affair: a usually secretive or illicit sexual relationship" dictionary definition

Uhhh...not your situation.

So, go slow but allow yourself to be happy. You deserve that!

Good luck!

bambam


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billy.....

I am not even going to comment on where i am on the list

I am soooooooo excited to meet her!!!!!

email me because I have LOTS to tell you!!!!!

and if I don't make the top 5 the super secret rum pie wil be smashed in your face!!!!!!

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Originally Posted By: fig
billy.....

I am not even going to comment on where i am on the list

I am soooooooo excited to meet her!!!!!

email me because I have LOTS to tell you!!!!!

and if I don't make the top 5 the super secret rum pie wil be smashed in your face!!!!!!



Figgy you can't smash pie in my face if I am not there, I spent the day trying to arrange a week or so of childcare for that weekend and came up empty \:\( Heh, never know but we may not even be together by then anyway (yea right like I don't think thats gonna happen)

Oh and you are in the top five somewhere, I'll let you ladies fight that one out it's safer.

e-mail?........I hardly have time to eat the last few days but I'll see what I can do \:\)


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