she filed and im scared!

[hurtnangry]

im sorry for being so screwed up. right now i feel lost, sad and confused. i really dont know if im coming or going.

and who wrote the book?

[hurtnangry]

im sorry for being so screwed up. right now i feel lost, sad and confused. i really dont know if im coming or going.

and who wrote the book?

[*KS*Chick*]

I think it's Gary Chapman but if you search for Love Languages on Amazon, you should find the book.

Have you read DB (Divorce Busting) and DR (Divorce Remedy)?

Here's a link to review the techniques.... http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1090437&page=1#Post1090437

A LOT of this is really about fixing ourselves......it may or may not fix your M (marriage) but you will come out of this a better person.

[hurtnangry]

ok im copying it as we speek.

[*KS*Chick*]

[hurtnangry]

thank you both so very much.

[*KS*Chick*]

anytime

[catfan]

Ha! KS you stole my thunder, I was just getting ready to post a link to that thread for him.

I'm re-reading Divorce Remedy right now, the better of the two books IMHO. A thought immediately hit me as I read and had this thread in the back of my mind. How many of us can really, honestly recite the 7 steps by heart? Then detail them? I know I can't and hence probably one of the reasons I have struggled and not seen changes in my situation sooner. Uh well I am re-reading to get that under control!

SO a message to everyone, if you haven't go back and re-read then commit the 7 steps to memory. To quote a line from Fast Times at Ridgemont High "Read 'em, Learn 'em, Live 'em". (OK sorry I had to toss a little humor into this thread, our boy here needs a good chuckle about now. He's lost, confused and getting beat up in here.)

[*KS*Chick*]

I'm sorry for stealing your thundah!

[*KS*Chick*]

and CF we haven't even STARTED beating him up