I think it's Gary Chapman but if you search for Love Languages on Amazon, you should find the book.

Have you read DB (Divorce Busting) and DR (Divorce Remedy)?

Here's a link to review the techniques.... http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1090437&page=1#Post1090437

A LOT of this is really about fixing ourselves......it may or may not fix your M (marriage) but you will come out of this a better person.

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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