It was not about postponing my return to fulltime work - I never disagreed that it should happen when D started K - but rather how much/what type of work I would do when I did return. WE did agree it was important I stay at home w/the kids when they were young, and did agree on the time of "when D started K" (Aug '06) as the return date.
Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.
Me: 45 - WAH: 36 S8; D6 M: 11 yrs 07/06 Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07 To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D