Do wonders ever cease?

[bright 2 morro]

Mom, I agree with MrsH. You need to be ready, it is up to you now. Follow your heart.

I know this from experience. If you read my thread you will understand. So much has happened over the last week that I was overwhelmed.

My H moved back in today. I know that he is not as progressed as you H. I battled over letting him come back. There are several reasons I did allow him to come back even though to most people it may seem early.

Maybe it is to soon for me and my H but like I said I have several reasons I finally agreed. It ultimately was my decision. The main reason had to do with something the C said to me after talking to him and me seperately. She said that it was his decision and he asked for her opinion. She sees some remorse and potential for us. Based on the fact that he left OW and had no where to go and he sees to be trying. She had me ask one question about my situation. If I did not try would I look back later on and wonder what would have been?

But every situation is different. I am not saying that is the question you should ask. I am just giving an example of what made me decide. Your H seems to more aware than mine is. My H still has questions about how we can work out. He is willing to try though.

I think you need to follow your heart. Maybe there is some sort of way to slowly move into it. Maybe start with weekends at first to get used to it, or a night here or there. Test the waters. This is just a suggestion, not saying you have to do this.

Can I ask you how long you H has been gone? How long was the A and how long he was in MLC?

Sorry for the questions. I am just curious.

Mimi