Yoyo, I have plans for what I'd like to do for me. However like you I am in limbo until I move July 5. Definatly a sucky way to spend an anniversary, I agree. I don't even feel like I can detach until I have some solid ground underneath my feet (moving). My last day of work here is Thursday and I go to PA for 10 days on Friday. Then I come back here to get everything packed up and wait for my D to get home from Oklahoma City on the 5th so we can go. Her soccer team won states here and they are going there for reginals. It's the only good thing to hit this family in a long time. When I go to PA I plan on keeping my mouth shut and riding it out and see how it goes. I think at this point that's about all I can do. If I bring up the OW or his talking to her we'll just get into a fight and there won't be any good memories to leave him with until we're all there together. Since we don't talk much on the phone and I know they talk all the time and are "building" their R I have to make our real time something that will be hard for him to walk away from. Alot to think about in the coming year that's for sure.
