I've followed this thread all day and have kept quiet till now. I too have wanted to solve all the problems yesterday. I figured out who I was and what I wanted and I charged ahead to get there. Well all it got me was probably 3 month more on all of this. Once I started to back off things started to improve. But they won't continue to improve if I don't back of more.

Another thing to remember is, He works in His time, not yours. As soon as you let go of this enormous need to fix things right now, He will take over completely. Then you'll start to notice changes.


If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06