Cac4 that isn't always the ending; often, he just "suddenly" files for divorce. "whatever". doesn't matter. its the "suddenly" part that I laugh at. Because no, you can't tell me that you can withold all affection for years on end, and not "just know". They "knew"; they simply refuse to acknowledge the need for physical affection as legitimate. "selfish", "childish", "immature", even "deviant" are words they use to describe a healthy, normal, male sex drive. (its all right out of Dr. Laura,

Simmer down Cac4. I never saw a woman on the MLC forum get that defensive, be that selfish, or see any situatins that bad.

And I have seen where guys had everything they wanted and leave because he found a new toy to play with.

I like some of Dr Laura's ideas but don't have to have a perfect Dr Laura type wife to be happier.

A couple of the LBW ask me questions and spill their guts out to me. I get the academic, not going to hit on you up right away.

One woman was M for 8 years and never had an "O" with her H. She wanted sex about every day and did all kinds of things for her. When he was done he got up or went to sleep. She quietly finished herself off. On top of that her H wanted a 3some. How lame is that? How cheated and lonely do you think the woman felt? The H found an OW and she is D.

This feeling like your wants are not being met is a male and a female thing.

Lou