Yeah, thanks everyone, your right. I definitly don't want to read into more than it is and get hurt again!!! I think it is a fear of not knowing the middle ground between trying to protect myself and seeming like I'm not interested.
What would you suggest as a vague hint? I don't want to push her or seem desperate either.
I guess as far as this weekend i'll just tell her about the event, not ask her if she wants to go.