Yvonne, I think the hardest thing for me is that nothing is going on in my sitch, which yours seems a lot like mine. We have been separated for almost 8 months. He hasn't filed D papers, but yet I wonder all the time if he going to. He certainly has said in the past that he was going to. I hate being in limbo, but I don't want to push him towards D if he is uncertain because ultimately I would like to work this out. But on the other hand I am detaching in the event that it comes to D. Our 21st anniversary is coming up in about 6 weeks and I too think about it often. What a way to spend an anniversary, huh? I guess what I'm trying to say is that we all such similar fears. Sounds like you are working on yourself, keep up the good work.
Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
