While you're getting to know your new neighbors, doncha forget the old ones ... 'kay?!
Thanks for the comments on muh thread, BTW ... much appreciated!
One of the big things in DB'ing (IMHO) is to protect yourself, legally. You're not going to get anywhere by being a doormat to the WAS, in the hopes they will change their mind. No way! They have to feel the consequences of their choices. It's the only way they will learn and grow. So, you are doing a kindness to your W, by protecting yourself, and ultimately, the children too.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim