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[BeingMe]

Thanks y'all! Yeah, I thought I might make it a kinda jokey thing! I don't want to hit him with something too intense after the couple of stressful weeks he's had, and just has a weekend to relax. Although, that puts me on a lower rung of importance, in a way, in that I feel the need to tip toe around him because he's only home for a short time. The eggshell thing ... again! Agh!

I agree with you, WII, that one should try everything before calling it a day. I am a fixer, by nature, so I don't like letting anything go until I have looked at it from all angles. Sometimes that's a curse, but it also has allowed me to learn much about myself, my H, and other people and stuff too. So, it's all good ... I think!

I only tried the 'keeping quiet' thing, as a way to see what it's like (so, emulating H), and as a way to try something different ... another angle, as it were. Might've worked, and it did in one way, in that it took the pressure off H, and maybe it helped to pre-empt any arguments. It showed, too, that I can go for long periods of time, with my mouth firmly shut, and not harping on things. Hahaha! Showed him, didn't I!? Or not, because he probably didn't notice.

Oy vey! Sometimes, I want to head for them thar hills!