Backslide!!!!!!!!

[BeingMe]

Okay, my 2c worth, if it is of any value ... you do realise that GF is actually OW until you are actually divorced (whether you are having a PA or not). No matter what your W has done, it doesn't make it right to do the same thing, and have an A (even if you don't view it as such).

I do understand that we all have our lives to live, want to be happy after all the pain we've been through, but sometimes we jump into things too soon, only to regret it later (much like our WAS's did), and all we can then do is repeat the standard statement of most cheaters, "I didn't mean to hurt anyone." Personally, I could never trust a married man starting a R with me. So, think long and hard, but you probably have done already.

Despite my sentiments (possibly expressed rather harshly ... sorry about that), I do hope it works out for you. I am glad that you have decided to keep the children out of it for now.

Good luck, and hope you let us know if it all works out or not, in the end!