ok here it is.... weve had many problems in our marriage many are due to accusations of constant cheating. for years i have been the one in our family to do all of the work . she says " im here, isnt that enough!" NO! 19 years ago we saparated & i started seeing someone else, her ex boyfriends sister saw us together and reported it to her. from there ups and downs. we both beat eachother up for years about it.her attitude got so bitter that i warned her if she didnt change she would regret it cuz one day i might find someone else. i did. i told her that i continuously warned her to fight and help fix us and she didnt.i moved in with the O W. i so regretted it. although the OW was everything i could ever have dreamed of,except it wasnt from the one my heart needed it from. i came home,no changes.i left 5 times then returned hoping thing would change. she says "you keep leaving me for her " and in a moment of anger i told her "NO! i keep leaving her for you." i have always truely loved my wife. she just had a hard time returning the favor. ive since been home for 4 months, she moved out 3.5 mmonths ago. nothig i do seens good enough for her. i dont know what im doing wrong.
