Lou, I posted to you earlier up above too, not sure if you saw it or not.

I guess for a long time I felt like shmagic about only women needing the emotional connection. I had no idea that guys needed/wanted it to.

Sorry, I've been a bit defensive here today guys. Sore subject. I'm still dealing w/ my issues as far as not being the only dummy in my M, but seemingly the only one who will step up and do anything to keep it together. He just kind of "decided" to stay -- really don't even know what changed his mind. So, yeah, feeling it a bit today. Hope I didn't offend anyone.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10