I think it all goes back to the bottom line being communication. If we had actually truly communicated how we were feeling, his feelings about the lack of sex and of course other things and my feelings of thinking I had to be a "mommy" and was very angry/resentful of this because that wasn't who I really was, etc., a lot of our cr*p could have been eliminated.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
