JR I am not certain but with this it does seem she has a bit of a hard time separating the two. She even said "don't you want to take care of your family" when I questions why we needed to do this right now.

So I have concerns that her intentions aren't completely equitable both with regards to the agreement and the recent improvements. But I do believe she is mostly sincere about the improvements.

This is a great opportunity to work on conflict resolution and really find out more about her true feelings by seeing how she handles all of this.


If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06