Well, in my defense, I don't feel as if H ever even tried to explain to me how the lack of S in our M was affecting him emotionally or the rejection issue. As I've said, I don't plan to go back to the way it was now that I have started getting A+'s on my lessons. Those comments kind of pissed me off, but like I said maybe this subject is very close to home and therefore I'm a bit more sensitive about it. If a guy won't sit down and talk to his wife about how he's feeling, then goes out and has numerous A's and says "I shouldn't have to tell my lifelong partner this stuff, she should just know" and then says he wants a divorce after having 3 beautiful little boys w/ this woman and she STILL wants to know how to make things better and does it and plans to keep doing it so that those things never happen again, I guess I don't appreciate the mention of my name along w/ the other comments made.
As for Cemar, you can defend him, but obviously he just likes to start crap around here. If he was truly dedicated to making his M better, if he really is even married, he would have taken some of the advice given to him long ago and may all ready have been in a better place in his M by now.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10