She'll view pretty much any contact as pursuing. Try and think about you and what you did to be happy before you met her.
Then do that.
Most of those things were illegal and I didn't have the responsibilities I do now. No seriously. I don't know how to have fun by myself anymore.
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."