I am still not sure how going dark works when you have children involved. I cannot just ignore phone, 9 times out of 10 it is my son. We have to see each other 5-6 times a week just because of logistics. So far I have not even thought of going dark, just withdrawn. I make visits to pick or drop off son as quick as I can normally, sometimes I do hang around, then again she does also when at my place.

I will do whatever it takes, as long as it does not make my S suffer. I will spend all the time I can to be around for him, I will not let him suffer because of her actions.


M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07